Sunday, October 9, 2011

Parents! Parents! Parents! IS IT RIGHT OR WRONG?!

As a young child/teenager I thought "hmmm...... why would a parent want to give this stuff to their own child" I just didn't get it, but as I got older I seem to understand why. Shockingly parents have different answers and explanations for doing so. I've herd stories from other teenagers that they were put on ADHD medicine in order to make them lose weight. I've herd parents say "in order for them to stay out of my way, calm them down, or even just because the 'TEACHER' recommended something needed to be done". The list can go on and on and on. But what is the right answer? Did you as parent ever consider the child, not only your benefits for this problem? With some situations I feel like giving your child medication is the easy way out.  As a teenage advocate for teen ADHD awareness I feel like medicine at a young age harms a child. Im saying that regardless of how good the medicine works for a child , they never really get to experience being regular.I also find that a-lot parents tell their child there not like the other kids. I also think as they get older, some kids have a-lot trouble finding themselves transiting over from elementary school to middle school. Basically becoming who they were ment to be. When I say that I also mean from a social aspect point of view. The middle school years for a child/young teenager is very important. During this time and century "PEER PRESURE" is huge factor for young teenagers. Such as Social Groups and Social Status. Social groups and social status determines good health, adaptation and building that needed common-sense to make it in society these days. Multiple of the teenagers I meet that have been on ADHD medication since elementary school have no "Common-Sense"! With having medicine controlling your every move through out the day, dont you think its kind of hard for someone to find where they "fit-in"? I will give more tips on "finding yourself" in some future blogpost. But for now I want to know what do the parents think? Is this even important to them. For more understanding of what Im saying, you guys should watch the "MTV"- true-life episode "I take aderall"http://youtu. determines/B2CTaZh-Wp4.  
When seeing this episode premier on MTV, it felt so GOOD that someone else out there was similar to me!  After watching this episode, I feel that parents influence the bad outcomes of there child  due to the mistakes they made their child conform to back in their younger years. I thought maybe I could sit down my parents and have them watch the True-Life Episode, just to show them some of the symptoms I felt. The emotional distribution I tried to explain to them over and over again! Tuhhh! That never worked. But overall I want to know feedback on this topic. Please feel free to comment! Thanks guys

Monday, September 26, 2011

What Parents Don't Know and Thinks Everything is Ok (In the begging)

I had a parent who was so serious about me and my ADHD meds. But honestly what parent doesn't bugg the situation. I can remember the first day I went to school on medication.  More than at least 10 people said "Hey Joshua whats wrong with you, is everything alright?". I would give them a fake happy smile so that they could go on about there business. I barely even had the tolerance to respond. I felt like such a zombie, or at least thats how I could describe it. I constantly thought about going home. JUST AWAY FROM PEOPLE! The simplest things in school would Piss me off, but on a regular day I could care less. I barely could be around my regular crowd of  friends with-out being so annoyed. I literally wanted to snap on anybody. When I ate lunch , nothing had a great taste, it was as if the food was plastic. I didn't even have a appetite anyways. My whole life felt blank and useless. I couldn't help but to think about the day I was lied to about going to see the doctor, and thinking I was going in for a regular check up, but instead for a testing to see if I was AdHd. I got home I cried, but honestly it seemed like  had no reason for crying, I just Felt upset for no reason. When the medicine began to ware off, I thought on how could I get around this everyday without causing such a problem in my household.........All I kept saying is " WHY ME". Why cant I just have a normal life. It seemed this was another problem to a growing teenagers life on top of living in peer pressured world. TO BE CONTINUED

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Who I am

Whats Up people. I am 18 year old college student , attending Howard university. I have to decided to speak out on my troubles and hardships that I've experienced since the day I was told I was diagnosed with ADHD. I want to influence others with positive feedback about there ADHD experiences , because people seemed to think they know what we go threw and how we feel and that we should just deal with it. I want to show other people that there is other ppl out here like you to.I will posting different things about growing up in a ADHD world, also follow the twitter page Im starting @havingADHDisOK